Some people who know me know that I dont usually give people the "Silent Treatment" I consider it rude, and classless! With that said, I also choose not to talk to
some people. This is not saying anything about those I choose to not speak to...
This is about ME. I know that there are a few readers who wonder by the Muffin Club by chance, referral or embedded link....we'll say, via Facebook. So If you happen to be one of those people this might sound a bit pompous, and for that Im sorry, as this may be your first impression. Thats my disclosure...take it or leave it!
I choose my friends carefully and I give all of myself to them. I hold nothing back. However, when the time has come that we "Part Ways by Choice"...NOT circumstance....Ok! Ok! Ok! MY CHOICE!... You will find yourself Locked Out of My world....it is rare that you will find me giving you anymore of my time, or my thought. (CAVEAT: This does not include Boyfriend Breakups or ExHusbands that I share a child with...Im always willing to keep a friend...if the Love Light Burnt out.) However if
we me, decided the time to move beyond you has arrived...then trust me Ive moved on! What brings this to the
foreskin forefront of my blog is: I have a few people via Facebook, that stop in comment my status posts or drop a pleasant hello....and for those few I choose to not reply! I dont feel I should have to Set my security settings to keep out certain people...I love social networking and I use it with my business...so Friends of Friends who are not my friends basically can still see and comment my stuff...I have rented condos through Facebook and I have gotten quite a few client leads and all because I am pretty transparent. (Jeeze...must I justify my time online?) So for all the transparency, I also have 3 friend requests sitting in my inbox that I have not accepted,
rejected there is now no deny, or ignored...and here is the reason why!
First of all If you respond with an accept your saying Yes I accept you, your faults, your Drama, your lifestyle....too intersect with mine. Yes this includes my door being open and me helping you when ever I can!
So I choose to NOT ACCEPT....Also If I declined you then Im kinda saying Hell to the No....In Your face....and Fuck Off but not in a term of endearment way....(Yes Fuck Off is a term of endearment in my world on occasion)....and here's the thing...I HAVE 400+ friends....so to say NO to someone is rude...like with 400+ friends I don't have any more room? Whatever...so I choose to not Reject You, completely...that however, doesn't mean the door of opportunity is open...Because I also don't IGNORE YOU....and here is the true reason why I don't ignore you either....If I hit the Ignore Option, you can continue to ask to be my friend....Its clear you've not been accepted...you've been pending 6 freaking months or more (The oldest) I'm probably never gonna accept you...and for the same reason I don't eat left over food out of the trash....I'm done with it. Ive Moved on, Moved Up, Moved Over....and really....YOU SHOULD TOO!
Tune In Next time...I'll tell you why Ignored Option ONE is still on permanent Ignore!
