Wednesday, May 5, 2010
You're Gay! Im Muffin!
This Blog will be passionate at times, angry at times and Anti God right out of the Gate! This Topic was suggested to me. Perhaps because I have tolerance, perhaps because I have a huge gay following (I wish!), or perhaps because I'm sensible in my ideas about other peoples sexuality.
I have solicited the opinions of a non scientific group of "GAYS" in which I am building my firm belief upon! This topic by no means suggests that I am less attracted to Men, cuz OMG, Hunka is the BOMB...he being very Hot, well manicured, and well... an all around "Hunka", even he has experienced via our "gay" friends a variety of disappointed looks and bigotry based on our decision to go with or to an establishment frequented by the Gay community. Of Course...Hunka gets hit on by gay men, when we go out! He gets hit on by Married Broads and Young Girls too...Hell a couple of the dudes that were hitting on him were pretty freaking Sexy in my opinion! It flattered me that they too found my man attractive! I always say, those who judge you wish they were you~Remember that! Buy a T Shirt that simply says: "Jealous Much"!
Before I go on any further; to the Gentleman that inspired the blog topic: I am impressed with your ability to know exactly who you are! It takes years and sometimes forever for people to find their CORE. I am inspired by you and want to wish you well! You have come out to your family and have been met with anger, fear, hate and Bible Versus. There are plenty of people in your family who adore you and support you! I'm also available to you! I understand that You are NOT BROKEN, You're Gay! I love you and don't even know you! Guess that makes me Better then the Christians you live with! Be Strong, Be Proud, and be True to YOU! So on this journey to blog/decide if Gay was a Choice....I must start with the Muffins opinion: I don't believe it is anymore of a choice then what sex you end up being, and even then there is some proof that girls are born with Boy Parts and Boys are born feeling like girls...Obviously NOT BY CHOICE! I also know that if my son, or daughter came to me and told me they were Gay I would react exactly in this way: I love you and I understand and appreciate your wish to live your life comfortably around your family. If my children can not count on me to support them even when I don't understand or agree with them... especially on the literal level of sexuality, how in the hell can I expect them to confide in me? For those Parents that "write their children off" especially because they are gay I ask...WHAT THE HELL? Who did this child kill? Is it possible to stop loving your children? Where is that boundary located? If your child did kill someone, can you really turn off that emotion? I still Love My Ex Husband in a sense. Don't go getting all crazy cuz I said that.
Also to my blog readers who drop by seemingly unnoticed and that do know EJHS don't go running to him telling him the Muffin "Loves Him" cuz, frankly I don't usually like him! In order for me to Love you ~Love you, I have to Like You....If I didn't have some Harbored emotion for this person, he couldn't get me all pissed off and angry by simply saying one word...Its not that easy to piss me off! So there is some unresolved emotion even for my ex-husband, whom I did not birth...So how do you delete emotion from someone you birthed? I don't know...it sounds like a bunch of bullshit to me! This entire time I'm sitting here racking my brain trying to come up with a reason to DISOWN my child. I cant think of one single reason to Disown My Child...NOPE NOT EVEN ONE!
And for the Family throwing the bible at "this child" who came to them for understanding and guidance.
If I could be so BOLD as to remind you...."This Child" is Yours! Not so long ago you raved that "This Child" was a blessing from Your GOD and through your faith believe that "This Child" is a CHILD OF YOUR GOD... Perhaps I'm lost in the conversation, Is a child of your GOD only a child of his if they are GOOD? If he/she doesn't do his/her homework, steals a cookie from the cookie Jar or a Piece of Gum from the Candy Store....Does he/she become something else? You hide behind your Bible because you think you are righteous, and I argue that you are not! Hell Five of the following Bible Rules have basically damned me personally to hell....So while you are on your knees praying for the salvation of your thrown away child's damned to hell soul, and you are on your journey to find a camp to cure them....Don't forget to throw the following verses at Your Heathen, Gay, Disowned Spawn while you are throwing him under the bus! YOU'RE A Bunch of Damned HYPOCRITES!
* DEUTERONOMY 22:13-21
If it is discovered that a bride is not a virgin, the Bible demands that she be executed by stoning immediately.
* DEUTERONOMY 22:22
If a married person has sex with someone else's husband or wife, the Bible commands that both adulterers be stoned to death.
* MARK 10:1-12
Divorce is strictly forbidden in both Testaments, as is remarriage of anyone who has been divorced.
* LEVITICUS 18:19
The Bible forbids a married couple from having sexual intercourse during a woman's period. If they disobey, both shall be executed.
* MARK 12:18-27
If a man dies childless, his widow is ordered by biblical law to have intercourse with each of his brothers in turn until she bears her deceased husband a male heir.
* DEUTERONOMY 25:11-12
If a man gets into a fight with another man and his wife seeks to rescue her husband by grabbing the enemy's genitals, her hand shall be cut off and no pity shall be shown her.
Put down your Bible you Idiots, and give your Gay Child a hug! My son in law is going to Theology college. Im sure he would have a voice in this discussion, I would think however, If my future Grandchild came to him as their father, likely as their pastor and said "Daddy Im Gay"....I don't think he would "Throw them Away", "Disown Him or Her" and "basically write them off as dead". My son in law knows I am not a Christian by his Faith, he also knows that I don't Judge people by anything other then their word to me. I take them at their word! Its not my place to Judge, its not your place to Judge. Whats the Bible verse...literally: Matthew 7:1-5
7“Do not judge, so that you may not be judged. 2For with the judgment you make you will be judged, and the measure you give will be the measure you get. 3Why do you see the speck in your neighbor’s eye, but do not notice the log in your own eye? 4Or how can you say to your neighbor, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ while the log is in your own eye? 5You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your neighbor’s eye.
and Y'all think I paint a picture with words? "A Log In The EYE?" We are suppose to take the Bible literally? So...this means that I can randomly "Branch" peoples eyes out, cuz I dont think they are righteous enough? Alrighty then! Matthew was quite the Drama King wasn't he? Seriously though, I hope the parents of this child read this and I hope my sister leads them to this...and just in case Parents of the Gay Child: click on the bible verses in blue....it is a link to a website where there is a GAY Pastor with his PHD in theology...I think I would buy what he was selling before I would disown my child. Perhaps it will help you on a different level or take a different stance where loving your child is concerned!
The story of a young lesbian girl who was disowned by her mother ended up killing herself is also written on this page...That Mother that disowned her now dead child advocates for Gay rights.
Really, there are so many different views on this from Gay and Civil views, to Political views and least of all the "biblical point of view". Regarding choice I don't think Gays decide to be Gay, sin comes in all different sizes and through every church congregation, and "Gay DNA"... well ...thats Science! None of this at all really has any baring when it comes to showing your child love! I searched and googled my information in about 25 minutes, Im no where near a Bible Scholar Ha! Thats L:aughable right there! I'm not saying My opinion or basic research is right or wrong...Im just saying try a little tolerance. Perhaps we should ask the Church Lady!
~Muffin Loves Gay!